JC SiLent:You cant be that far away from me ; if we're looking on the same side of the moon
Saturday, May 24, 2008
To all whom are concerned abt my romance
As for me
Thinking and worried abt this won't help much
Unless I take more initiative, be more sociable, widen social circle, participate more activities, ...
The list of thing I can do is so long
But I am not doing much
Shldn't or no position to complain or grumble
Or you guys want to give me practical help
Intro guys lah, join social activities with me lah, improve my dressing like what some gf are helping me wif
Recent belief:
"Is a matter of timing. Some meet the one earlier while some meet the one later.
Maybe he may have appeared but I missed him or we will find each oth later? Life continue no matter what."
& 10:54 pm
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Yummy at Egypt..
Real holidays mean peaceful quiet. With great companion. R and R time. No internet email call..
Share the sights at Egypt later
& 9:45 pm
Monday, May 19, 2008
Weird Happening 1
Place: Hawker Centre at opp Fu Lu So Complex, Bugis
Ppl: Aunt A [A], Aunt B [B] and myself [C]
Date: 17 May 2008, Sat
Time: Lunch time
** refer to action or wat is gg thur in the mind.
Story..
Sharing a tbl with 2 aunt [A] and [B] and having 'chay peng' wif fave chilli sauce before MA class
[A]: How much is ur lunch? got chicken, vege and luncheon meat leh
[C] : $2.50. the set meal fr tt stall
[A] wow you so smart. nowadays, such lunch will cost SGD 3 or more cos inflation lah
[C] Thanks
[A] Asked if she can try the chiili sauce. Took some over and find it nice too.
5 mins later
[A] How old're u? Working/ studying? What're u doing here?
[C] 23 yr old. Working. Have class here. **feelin awkward**
[A] Sporean or foreigner?
[C] Sporean
[A] ** impressed and full of praise ** so hardworking. got bf?
[C] no
** how I wish I am attached at tt moment **
[A] ** her eyes wide open and full of smile**
huh!! how come?? I got a Chinese guy to intro u. He is fr China and hope to settle down in Spore as PR or citizen. The fastest way is to get a Sporean wife.
**Happily write his name and hp no. Invite me to her church **
[C] **Smile and dun wish to say much. Hard to explain and get understanding fr oth. So dun bother. Aunt want to be matchmaker and help the guy so badly **
Oh.. ok. Too bz to date
[A] Ai yo!! Youth and time dun wait. Find bf when young. Consider him lah. He is a nice guy doing electronic and electrical stuff.
** Promoting him **
[C] ** Siao ah. Leave the place asap. Dun want to talk to her. Waste my breathe ** Bye, gtg
Conclusion:
- Over-frendly aunties are scary
- Dun like the idea of blind date introduced by stranger. Not so advanturous.
- Won't call the guy
- Find me if anyone wants the guy's contact no.
- Seems to be asking me to do him a favour and marry him. Then he can apply to be PR or citizen more easily. Easier for him to bring his sister over here
- Unless he's capable, gd looking.. got chemistry [basically must fulfil some qualities of my dream guys if not forget it]
- Or he is rich to pay me to 'marry' him
To Shann and Boss Sm esp
Now I attract uncles, aunties, PRC, Malay. What's next?
Shann. can advertise me on more international auction/wedsite like ebay, google. Now then i noe i appeal to them?
Hope to have more guy frend and whoever tt come along will be a real guy who is poss to develop further.
I am still a normal gal wif the 'basic' or 'normal' expectation.
& 8:50 pm
To Boss SM on my ideal/dream guy's qualities
** speechless **
WOWOww super fwd planning. So thoughtful, detailed
These conditions are to protect me financially. Aft all, I need love and bread.
Divorce is so common nowadays. The husband may bump the wife anytime and couples can part anytime too. Life is full of uncertainty. Money do provide some sense of security.
Even MM Lee has some value / mindset change recently. He started to realise tt no. of single parent families is on the rise. MM Lee showed signs of support for single ladies to adopt kids and have a family with low marriage and birth rates.
Sound like some sociology class..
According to a gf then, I will be a single mum than to abort the child if I am single and being bumped by the guy. How true is it?
Recent belief:
"Is a matter of timing. Some meet the one earlier while some meet the one later.
Maybe he may have appeared but I missed him or we will find each oth later? Life continue no matter what."
& 10:14 am
[Amended on 19 May 2008]
Many have been asking what kind of guy appeal to me more, more charming, attractive. Believe they are concern abt my social life. Some may want to offer some help.
Here are some DEMANDING qualities of my ideal/dream guy which is ever changing and not in any particular order
1. Slightly more career minded, aggressive at least in work
2. Financially independent and free
3. High tolerance level
4. Ability to handle mood swing, insecured, emotional moments
5. Love travelling
6. Like photography
7. Some common interest, thinking, values, frequency, similarities
8. Taller and bigger built than me
9. Broad shoulder
10. Wear spect
11. Charming, humourous [Shannon's comment]
12. Comfortable, chemistry with him [Added on 19 May 2008]
Boss SM's comments:
13. must have a rich dad
14. if dun haf a rich dad, then must haf struck the lottery (prize money > 1 million SGD)
15. if haf not struck the lottery, then must haf at least SGD 1 million in his saving accounts.
Note: unless he satify either 12, 13 or 14, he cannot proceed to 15.
16. must agree to sign the above conditions
17. if u bear 1st child, must gif ang bao = SGD $100k. child number 2 will depends on the increase in cost of living at that time. (eg, GST rate, inflation rate, CPI ) scully, ltr SGD $300K oso not enuff to buy 20 LV bags lor due to inflation so must see how the state the economy is in then state the rate! very hard to predict ok, just look at the price of oil n rice!! hai!
hey do u guys think i miss out or need to add on anything? feel free to comment
P.S. SUCH GUY DUN EXIST. IF THEY DO EXIST, IS TOO GD TO BE TRUE TT I FEEL INSECURED.
& 10:10 am
To all whom are concerned abt my romance
As for me
Thinking and worried abt this won't help much
Unless I take more initiative, be more sociable, widen social circle, participate more activities, ...
The list of thing I can do is so long
But I am not doing much
Shldn't or no position to complain or grumble
Or you guys want to give me practical help
Intro guys lah, join social activities with me lah, improve my dressing like what some gf are helping me wif
Recent belief:
"Is a matter of timing. Some meet the one earlier while some meet the one later.
Maybe he may have appeared but I missed him or we will find each oth later? Life continue no matter what."
& 10:04 am
To GH
Congrat, you caught his attention, heart and mind.
More guys turn/notice to you
Charm and beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
Guess Mr C is seriously, helpless in love wif u fr his actions and words?
Indulge in his love, attention, pamper, companion.
Seems so sweet, romantic, loving, happy..
Maybe he is Mr Right?
Will you give him a chance to progress or prefer remain status quo?
All depends on both parties.
Gd to go ard since he has a car.
Enjoy the world wif jus you and him.
Do spend more time wif the guys, whoever is it.
Increase ur chance of meeting Mr Right.
Do what you think is right/acceptable.
Is ok tt I find/meet you less.
& 9:38 am
Cyclone Nargis at Myanmar
Earthquake and many after shock at Sichuan, China
Acts of God?
Consequence of human acts?
Hope all the victims will rest in peace or recovery quickly
Hope all the survivors will be brave, look fwd and move on
Likely affect world rice supply and price
Definitely affect world commodities demand and price like oil and food
Will worse inflation
Will increase the burden of international community
Contribute whatever one can
Little thought, action, console and comfort help
May influence anoth’s life
& 9:33 am