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Saturday, August 20, 2005
Say Anything...
What movie Do you Belong in?(many different outcomes!)
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& 2:31 pm
Men are like.....Floor tile.
Lay them right the first time and you can walk on them for a lifetime.
Men are like.....Placemats.
They only show up when there's food on the table.
Men are like.....Mascara.
They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
Men are like.....Bike helmets.
Handy in an emergency, but otherwise they just look silly.
Men are like.....Government bonds.
They take so long to mature. [some behave like they're big kids.. it make them cute in a way]
Men are like.....Parking spots.
The good ones are taken, and the rest are too small.
Men are like.....Copiers.
You need them for reproduction, but that's about it.
Men are like.....Lava lamps.
Fun to look at, but not all that bright.
Men are like.....Bank accounts.
Without a lot of money, they don't generate much interest. [can't depend on guys for money nowadays.. have to be financially independent]
Men are like.....High heels.
They're easy to walk on once you get the hang of it. [this means i haven't get the hang of it cos i'll have blaster n swollen feet aft wearing them]
Men are like.....Curling irons.
They're always hot, and they're always in your hair.
Men are like.....Mini skirts.
If you're not careful, they'll creep up your legs.
Men are like.....Bananas.
The older they get, the less firm they are.
Men are like.....Coffee.
The best ones are rich, warm, Full-bodied, and can keep You up all night long.
Men are like.....Chocolate Bars.
Sweet, smooth, and they usually head Right for your hips. [but i prefer dark chocolate]
Men are like.....Blenders.
You need one, but you're not quite Sure why. [to kill time for some]
Men are like.....Coolers.
Load them with beer and you can take Them anywhere.
Men are like.....Horoscopes.
They always tell you what to do and Are usually wrong. [when guys noe of a prob they'll think of solution due to their brain struture
Men are like.....Laxatives.
They irritate the %!## out of you.
Men are like.....Noodles.
They're always in hot water, they Lack taste, and they need dough.
Men are like.....Plungers.
They spend most of their lives in a Hardware store or the bathroom.
Men are like.....Popcorn.
They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
Men are like.....Snowstorms.
You never know when he's coming, how Many inches you'll get or how long he will last. [aft all relationship & feeling're weak & fragile..]
Men are like.....Used Cars.
Both are easy-to-get, cheap, and unreliable.
Men are like.....Vacations.
They never seem to be long enough.
Men are like....The Weather.
Nth can be done to change either one of them.
& 2:22 pm
Sunday, August 14, 2005
situation - 11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably yawns
bad example
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and slp lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
[guy hangs up the phone.]
5 min later, phone rings awaken by the phone rings,
guy: hello?
gal: .............
guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?
guy (confused): huh? what?
gal: .............
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? why you said this??
gal: ..............
guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to slp...
guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to slp...
gal: you already said want to slp already, what else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what
for tell me to go
sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that do?
gal: what's the pt? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not cos afraid tt i will be unhappy...
in the end, guy spend dunno how long comforting gal, actualsleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a gd slp. what worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.
good example
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired fr work. but you have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you tired, go and slp(still sounding out) never fall into the trap and hang up the phone
guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i give u a call tmr morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired. [gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this ]
guy: so what time you are going to slp?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one hor...
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
guy: ehmm...
gal hang up the phone
in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call from gal the next day...
conclusion
1. female wants feeling and care. most of the time, female's logic cannot be figure out with a reasoning mind.
2. say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than half of ur precious time
3. when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the phone 1st. else it will be disastrous...
4. if your gf isn't like the one in the eg, then congrats to u! treasure her! but if otherwise, dun accuse her of being nreasonable. what she wants is very simple.
& 11:49 pm
think this serves as a gentle reminder for all.. it may help me in near future?? hope to heard more gd news in the near future..
1. TRUST is a very impt factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, tt is the end. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator received a phone call and answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I dunno whose no. it is." W/o mutual trust, just imagine what will happen if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
2. NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you pls share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a
smile, "Never criticise your wife for her shortcomings or when she does sth wrong. Because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."
We all look fwd to being loved and respected. Many ppl are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look ard to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We shld always remember tt when we point 1 finger at one, the other 4 fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive oth, oth will ignore our mistake too.
3.NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one tries to overpower anoth, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. [rubbish lor cos one shld like anoth for wat he or she is.]
Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is hard to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse will cause
disappointment and unpleasantness. [the higher the expectation. the more disappointed one will be most of the time]It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
4. RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning tt "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." [totally agree tt it will make a drastic differences]
Many relationships break off because of wrong speech [tone/wrong usage of word..]When a couple is too close with each oth, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything w/o considering if it would hurt oth.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date
in the sec sch." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Othwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered, "You shld appreciate tt you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship.
& 11:28 pm