JC SiLent:You cant be that far away from me ; if we're looking on the same side of the moon
Saturday, November 19, 2005
very blessed to've some very supportive gfs who went thur my ups and downs of my life. thx you. listen to my grumbles complaint crap.. do childish stuff. laugh at silly thing.
Thank God i have them ard. wat will life be w/o them? dun dare to think / imagine tt. it will be like hell i guess..
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and chatting wif her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
"Don't forget your gfs," she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass.
"They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you'll have, you are still going to need gfs. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them. And remember that girlfriends are not only your friends, but your sisters, your daughters, and other relatives too. You'll need other women. Women always do."
'What a funny piece of advice,' the young woman thought.
'Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! -- a grownup. Surely my husband and the family, we'll start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'
But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her gfs and made more each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, gfs are the mainstays of her life.
After almost 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:
Times passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Love waxes and wanes.
Hearts break.
Careers end.
Jobs come and go.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Men don't call when they say they will.
BUT gfs are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.
A gf is never farther away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley, and you have to walk it for yourself, your gfs will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on ur behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you. Or come in and carry you out.
My mother, sister, sister-in-law, "sisters," extended family, and friends bless my life!
The world wouldn't be the same without them, and neither would I.
When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each oth. Every day, we need each oth still.
& 5:02 pm
why office staff is always dead tired?
companies dun require no further physical fitness programmes for their staff. no wonder Health Promotion Board is trying so hard to make so exercise in the 'rite way'??
1. Jumping to conclusion
2. Beating ard the bush
3. Running down the boss
4. Going ard in circles
5. Dragging their feet
6. Passing the buck
7. Climbing the corporateladder
8. Wading thur paperwork
9. Pulling strings
10. Throwing their weight around
11. Stretching the truth
12. Bending the rules
13. Pushing their luck
& 4:48 pm
Sunday, November 13, 2005
如果?
歌手：??友 ??：?影如果?主?曲
每?人都想明白
?是自己生命不???的真?
特?在午夜醒?更是?感慨
心?埋怨?有不能?怀
都是因?你触碰了?
如果?就是?
再?身就?勇敢留下?
就算受?就算流?
都是生命里?柔灌溉
哦?在回?里?是那么明白
困惑的心流?的?
?有?不清黑夜等待
如果?就是?
如果你??明白
后?的生命里是快??是悲哀
特?在夜深人??想起未?
是否能平?不?想?在
只是因?你?有了?
如果?就是?
再?身就?勇敢留下?
就算受?
就算流?
都是生命里?柔灌溉
哦?在回?里?是那么明白
困惑的心
流?的?
?有?不清黑夜等待
如果?就是?
如果?就是?
& 12:17 pm