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Saturday, November 18, 2006
Common misconception tt men have abt women.
What went wrong?? Very curious what misconception women have on men.
1. She will never be satisfied.
She is always finding ways to improve. Dun tk her suggestions as complaints or critcisims. See them as her desires to make the r/s/situation the best it can be. But is true tt she is complainting at times.
2. A strong, confident woman dun need a man
ABOSULTELY WRONG!!! eveyone luv to be taken care or feel needed. She will ask for men's help if she feels his strength, support & desire to protect her even she is a wonder women. She become stronger becos there is no one to tk care of her or help her. She needs to handle everything to survive. Very helpless.
Men, do ask her "What can I do for you?". It shows tt you care for her [even as a frend].
3. Women only want to ctrl men
It is abt luv. She really want to help when she sees the man hurting, struggling or overwhelmed. Let her help.
Someone rejected my help in work. Can see tt he has too much to handle. Maybe he still can cope or dun want to be seen as weak or simply i cannot help much and may cause trouble for him only??
4. Keeeping a woman need lot of hard work, time and money
UTTER RUBBISH!! Boil down to the issue what kind of woman is she.
I am cheap and easy to maintain!!.
Can ask ard abt this. Most women are financially independent so there shld not be a major problem.
Time and effort is needed to cultivate the r/s esp a serious r/s. if it is a burden shld not enter a r/s then. She will reciprocate the man's effort.
5. Cannot lie to a woman
Extremely capable of picking up moods, attitude and body language. Man may think tt you have gotten away. But it may not be true. She may be letting it go to keep peace or lying to herself becos she is afraid to noe the truth. Normally truth is hurtful.
6. Jealousy and possessiveness are part of women
Women are very protective esp sth very valuable to them like r/s. The best proof is how a mother tk care and protect her child. She is guarding the r/s to prevent anything bad to happen to sth so precious.
7. Women are emotional
Women cannot and dun hide their feeling. They articulate what is going on in their mind. Being in touvh with their emotion causes women to be caring, sensitive and loving. Tt is why men luv women.
I am very rational. No wonder...
"There are many fine women in the world, but you are the best of all"
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